So, I found out about 6 months ago (the day after my birthday to be exact) that the love of my life was actually in love with someone else. I was introduced in a very personal way to Kubler-Ross and have gone through all of the stages many, many times. I think that I've even gone through several that weren't listed or maybe simply haven't been discovered yet. Anyway, I would like to officially propose a sixth stage: the recovery stage. I have finally done more than accept the loss of my relationship and the reality of what that relationship was. I have begun to recover.
Thus, the reason for this blog. This will be a record of my new journey as I not only survive, but learn to thrive in this new life. I will keep this as a record of events for my two wonderful children (known here as Peanut and Muffin) and myself. This will not be a blog to bash my ex-wife. We've had over 18 years together and I've quite simply moved passed the desire to trash her. This is a record meant for myself and my children but would consider it an added blessing if it helps someone else or I make some new friends out of it.
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